DAY 20 - A PRESENT FOR A.

Today’s reflection is about giving. I have a friend who makes a big deal out of giving presents. Her whole Advent season is centred around it—like opening an Advent calendar with a chocolate every day, but instead of chocolates, it’s thoughtful gifts for others. She’s so diligent in her preparations, and I’m always so grateful for her generosity. She also has people around her who think of her, perhaps because they see how much joy giving brings her. I think she’s quite lucky to have that. But not everyone does.
When I talk to people, or even when I think about myself, I realize how important it is to make room for our own happiness, too. Years ago, I encouraged my mom to buy something nice for herself during this season. She was always so careful, worried about spending too much on herself, but I think it’s good to use this time as an opportunity to treat ourselves a little. It’s not selfish—it’s a way of caring for ourselves. The presents we give to ourselves should bring us joy.
This year, I’ve treated myself to a few surprises, and I’m so glad I did. They’re not sitting under a Christmas tree because I don’t have the habit of doing that. (Plus my Christmas tree, especially this year, is not exactly the place where I could put anything) Instead, they’re already in use, bringing me joy right now. I don't need a special encouragement or reminder to do that but if you do - I am challenging you - get yourself something special this season!